I've said for years I have to decide between a party that says what I want to hear, but it's mostly lies, or a party that makes no bones about the desire to do the opposite of what I want. It's not hard to find examples of buying votes or growing government on both sides, but the "Build Back Better" is just one example where the Democrats are more likely to think the government can fix it, as quoted in my surprisingly inflammatory Dilbert.
I will say though I can find examples, like Tom Coburn, where some Republicans consistently tried to slow the growth of government.
"You didn't build that"
--- Barak Obama